Butterfly is Gone

Butterfly died at six thirty this morning. She has taught me so many things, and now one more: life is fragile, well-being is fragile, but love is the strongest substance there is.

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I loved you with all my heart Miss Butterfly, and I always will.

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About rachelmankowitz

I am a fiction writer, a writing coach, and an obsessive chronicler of my dogs' lives.

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  1. Oh Rachel, I’m so sorry. Sending hugs and condolences to you, your mum and Cricket. That dear little girl will be missed by all of you and all of us.

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  2. The grief is deep when we lose a dog. Be gentle with yourself. Do something special to remember her. Peace to you, you mom and Cricket.

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  3. Oh Rachel, I am in tears reading this. Dogs are the centre of my universe so I fully understand the gut wrenching shock you have received at dear little Butterfly’s passing. Give Cricket lots of extra pats because she will be grieving in her silent way and will not understand what has occurred. Spread the love. My heart goes out to you.

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  4. Gigi and I are so sorry to hear about Butterfly I know she will be sadly missed by you all.

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  5. I am so sorry! I wish there were something I could do to help. Everyone who knows you will be praying for you and your family (and sending joyous thoughts to Butterfly in her new home). *Hugs*

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  6. Oh, my! What a sad loss for you and for all of your readers who came to think of you, Butterfly, and Cricket as part of their own families – me included. I share in your sense of loss.

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  7. 😦 So sorry for your loss. Give Cricket a hug for me. (and yourself)

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  8. So sorry to hear of this…condolences to you yours

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  9. So terribly sad for your deep loss, Rachel

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  10. I am so sorry. Virtual hugs.

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  11. i feel your sorrow, sending warm thoughts to you, your mom and Miz Cricket…

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  12. Rachel I am so sorry. We only get to love our 4 legged friends for such a short time it seems. May your memories of your days together give you strength now during this time of sorrow.

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  13. Dear Rachel,
    When I opened my email and saw your post I started to cry! Butterfly was such a dear sweet friend. I know you are heartbroken as well as your mom and Cricket. Take comfort in knowing that you have Butterfly a wonderful home. We will all miss her.

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  14. So sorry, heartbreaking news.

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  15. I am so, so sorry to read about Butterfly. She was a sweet and beautiful girl who had a heart full of love. Find comfort in knowing that you gave her a home and a family and she seemed like a happy and peaceful girl because of it.

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  16. Life really is fleeting.
    Try to appreciate every heart beating.
    By a sweet butterfly, The world has been blessed.
    And now for awhile anyway, the world will seem less.

    May the God of peace be with you today as you remember the playful barks of your precious Butterfly.

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  17. I am so sorry. 😥😥😥

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  18. So sorry for your loss. It is a miracle that you could relate to both Butterfly and Cricket so well. I know she will be missed and that words miss the mark every time, so hugs to you and yours.

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  19. So sorry for your loss.

    When All That’s Left Is Love by Rabbi Allen S. Maller
    When I die
    If you need to weep
    Cry for someone
    Walking the street beside you.
    You can love me most by letting
    Hands touch hands, and Souls touch souls.
    You can love me most by
    Sharing your Simchas (goodness) and
    Multiplying your Mitzvot (acts of kindness).
    You can love me most by
    Letting me live in your eyes
    And not on your mind.
    And when you say Kaddish for me
    Remember what our
    Torah teaches,
    Love doesn’t die People{puppies} do.
    So when all that’s left of me is love
    Give me away.

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  20. So sorry for your loss. Condolences to you!

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  21. Oh Rachel I am so sorry for your loss. Even though I never met Butterfly in person I loved her. I know that sounds crazy but it is true. Just like when I saw Midnight on the internet I had a strong feeling to adopt her and I was right. Butterfly knew she was loved and was very lucky to have such a loving home and family. Again I am so sorry for your loss.

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  22. I’m so sorry you’ve lost your Butterfly. Dogs hold a piece of our heart, and it’s so hard to say goodbye.

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  23. So sorry to her about Butterfly, Rachel.

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  24. Rachel I am so, so sorry. I have loved following Butterfly’s, Cricket’s and your daily lives and will miss Butterfly. You really do love them so much and it hurts when they leave. I’ll light a candle for Butterfly in our house for a while. It will be a nice reminder.

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  25. Jennifer Barraclough's avatar Jennifer Barraclough

    I feel very sad for you, and also for Cricket who will be missing dear Butterfly too.

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  26. Effie Carayannis's avatar Effie Carayannis

    Oh Rachel, I’m so sorry for you loss. My condolences dear, take care.

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  27. I am sorry. Butterfly will be missed so much by all of you. Give Cricket lots of hugs as she to is missing her best friend. I will remember Butterfly because of all your sharing.

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  28. May she be happy in doggie heaven…Condolences to you..take care..

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  29. I am so sorry Rachel. .

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  30. My heart is breaking with yours. I am so very, very sorry. Sending hugs and love to you and Cricket.

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  31. Sending you and Cricket lots of warm hugs and kisses from me and my little Miekie. We are so sorry to hear that she has gone, but we know that she was extremely loved while she was with you. We are thinking of you all. Much love. xx

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  32. Thinking of you, Rachel. May your wound heal over time. Keep writing, it’ll help.

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  33. So sad, I’m so sorry to hear it, it’s awful to lose a dog.

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  34. Butterfly must have lived a lovely life, giving her love to you and helped you in becoming a good person that you are. I am sure that she is looking out for you eventhough she is in heaven. 😘🙂
    I am very sorry for your loss.

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  35. So sorry to hear this. Brings a sad smile thinking of Ms. Butterfly with ears flapping running in Heaven’s flowery meadows as free as the wind. Know that she is and will be every somewhere close by remembering the love you gave her. Blessings to you.

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  36. So sad to hear this news Rachel. She always made me smile as soon as I saw her pictures. Condolences to you and Mom and Cricket..

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  37. We are all so very sorry and so sad to hear about Butterfly’s crossing the bridge. There are no more words, except to say we all know what you are going through. God bless you. Pip and the boys

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    • Thank you. I knew that I needed to tell all of my blogging friends about Butterfly’s passing, because you are the ones who know exactly how I feel. The outpouring of love has been overwhelming and incredibly comforting.

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      • Doggy people understand completely; it is devastating and merely thinking about the death of dear Uncle Johnny all those years ago now still brings tears to our eyes. Take care. Pip and the boys

  38. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and let your memories heal your heart.

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  39. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Cricket durning this sad time.

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  40. I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. You have captured her beautifully in these pages.

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  41. My heart goes out to you and yours for this great loss. As you’ve noted in your grief two truths: life indeed is fragile and we can learn so much about it (life) from our pups. Be well soon.

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  42. So sorry about the loss of your beautiful companion.

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  43. I am so sorry for your loss Rachel.

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  44. Rachel, I am so very sorry for your loss. Butterfly was a member of your family, as my dogs are members of ours. Allow yourself to grieve and take comfort in Cricket and the rest of your family. Hugs to you!

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  45. My condolences… i will miss her adventures.

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  46. I am so sorry. Sending my sincere condolences to you.

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  47. So sorry! Sweet memories to you…

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